misunderstanding
What is your “why”? Why do you do what you do, think the way you think, enjoy what you enjoy? There are reasons. Probably some good ones and some not so good ones. Regardless, we all have our “why.” That’s just primal.
In my life, I’ve pondered the question “why” more than the average person. As a former journalist, why has always been one of the most important questions. If we all sat back and processed the why, by asking the right questions from a clear, confident and emotionally intelligent space, the world would be a bit more understood. At the end of the day, isn’t that what’s missing, understanding?
It’s simple. Misunderstandings are the root of all problems. Misunderstandings are all around us. They’re tiny and they’re big. They’re not necessarily verbal. They could be visual. They could be silent. Some of them weigh more than others, *not necessarily physically speaking of course. Misunderstandings are in our homes. They’re in society. Let me tell you, they are definitely lurking in the workplace, whether you conduct business virtually or not. More importantly, misunderstandings stunt our business growth.
How do we kick misunderstanding to the curb? Well, effective communication, but what a vague term, right?
Here are some AMC best practices that will help you immediately generate effective communication in your professional and personal lives:
Practice the pause. Choose presence and thoroughly listen. Erase the old narrative that you don’t have time. We all have the time. Authentically listening is a mindful choice
When we think about communication, we think about talking. At Anna Michele Communications, we believe listening is the most important element in the effective communication process. When we take time to patiently listen, we’re clearer on what the other person or group is conveying. In order to better listen, we have to sharpen our mindfulness habits.
Schedule a visit with your ego
The ego is a fascinating creature. That thing, whatever it is, needs a time-out more often than we realize. We respond from ego every day. When we mindfully question our ego’s intention, we acknowledge the “why,” and choose to be more diplomatic with our responses in communication.
Match your reaction to the misunderstanding
By thoroughly listening to the other party and analyzing our ego, we’re able to mindfully dissect any message. This helps us articulate and craft our responses from a more emotionally intelligent space. The result? A peaceful or non-offensive outcome. An agree-to-disagree type of resolve, at minimum.
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I look forward to our good work together. Sending gratitude & presence to you and your colleagues.
Mindfully Speaking,
Anna Michele Bulszewicz
Founder, Anna Michele Communications